Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Where were you 25 years ago?.....

Today, November 26th, 2008, is a very special day in our family. It is the date in which our family officially started, with the exchanging of vows by my father and mother. This year is extra special, since they have now been married for 25 years! For most of us, that is quite a long time, but mom says it has gone by amazingly fast.

As a tribute to their 25 years, I would like to take a look back through the mists of time, for a snapshot of what has changed in the last 25 years.....

Ronald Regan is in the third year of his first term as president (with George Bush Sr. as Vice-President), and says in his state of the union address: "As we gather here tonight, the state of our Union is strong, but our economy is troubled...."

The wildly popular album, "Thriller", by a 24 year old Michael Jackson sells 25 million copies. He is propelled to greater success through his MTV video for "Beat It". Some of us wish he had...

The median price for a home is $89,800, the price of a gallon of gas is $1.24, and a first class stamp is 20 cents.

The Cabbage Patch Doll is introduced to the world, and the world can't get enough of them. Parents and grandparents alike line up for hours outside of stores, to purchase these yarn haired toys. One of these lines turns into a riot in a Wilkes-Barre, PA toy store, in which limbs are broken, and teeth knocked out.

6800 bars of solid gold, valued at $39 million are stolen from London's Heathrow Airport. My parents are not suspects, as they are getting married on the day is was stolen.

The worst drought since 1936 hits the nation's farmers. Global warming has not yet been invented to serve as a scapegoat, so they just call it a "dry year".

Soft drink manufacturers begin using aspartame to sweeten their beverages. Who knew.....

One Michael Dell, then 18, begins rebuilding PC computers in his dorm room. Yep, would have loved to have been the roommate on that venture!

Star Wars Episode VI: Return of the Jedi is released. It is the highest grossing movie of that year, and my dad kicks the theater seat in front of him.....

The first Costco is founded in Seattle, WA. They never knew that the Hector family would one day be their biggest purchaser of toilet paper, Kleenex and paper towels.

But, the most important event to occur in 1983 was this:


At 1:00pm my mother walked down the isle, and to the side of my father, so beginning their lifelong journey together. On this day before Thanksgiving, I am ever so thankful that this occurred, and that their marriage has grown, deepened, and matured over these last 25 years. They never knew at the time that in just a mere two decades and a half, they would be in charge of this:


It is probably a good thing they didn't!

Happy Anniversary, Dad and Mom! You have been wonderful parents. 25 years is quite the accomplishment, and I am looking forward to writing the blog posts for the 50th and even the 75th.....

Posted by BFH

16 comments:

Simply Tiffany said...

What a wonderful post! As history is a favorite subject in our house, this "peek into the past" was greatly enjoyed! Oh, and I was one of the happy children who owned a Cabbage Patch doll...whatever happened to her is beyond me, but once upon a time she was mine and I was hers...

Happy Anniversary, Mr. & Mrs. Hector! May God richly bless you with many more years together!

Dani said...

Congratulations on your anniversary!

Ben, don't be dissing Michael Jackson. He was once a cool, and somewhat decent, person ;-)

Anonymous said...

Happy Anniversary!!

Nicely written tribute, Ben!

Jessica McDonald said...

Great post, Ben!! It was a joy to read! :-)

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MR AND MRS HECTOR!!!! I pray that the Lord blesses you with many, many more years ahead!!

Anonymous said...

Many hearty congratulations to Mr. and Mrs. Hector! Can't wait 'til my parents get there! ;-)

Say, I know this is incredibly late buuuuuut... We're in the San Francisco, Santa Rosa area today and possibly tomorrow. Do you have any suggestions for a "must do/see" day trip?

Chances are we'll hang out with our grandmother as we did last time. Thought we'd ask anywho, perhaps for future ideas.

Hope y'all had a most enjoyable and memorable Thanksgiving!

MKH

Thomas and Lindsey said...

Melanie,

The two things that I would do if I were in SF would be to visit the Exploratorium:

www.exploratorium.edu

And also go to the Fisherman's Wharf to get some fresh clam chowder in a bread bowl. Nothing better!!

Have fun!

Thomas

Anonymous said...

That was a very sweet post. I am very thankful that all of you are apart of our lifes. Happy belated anaiversary Mr. and Mrs. Hector. We love Y'all.

Miss.M

Anonymous said...

I remember where I was. I was at their wedding!
Congrats to Dave and Jean with best wishes for the next 25 years!

Uncle Richard

Anonymous said...

I actually happen to agree with Danny on the Michel Jackson subject(sorry Ben). Congrats Mom and Dad.

Stacy McDonald said...

Happy Anniversary! What a beautiful tribute! Praise God for such precious years together; may He bless you with many more!

And I'm with Ben on the Michael Jackson thing. Even "back in the day" I thought he was weird. I had a friend in my senior class who worshipped him. I couldn't figure her out.

He was kind of cute when he was about 8 yo though. Poor thing.

Joy said...

Happy Anniversary to Mr. and Mrs. Hector!
It was cool to see their wedding picture! :-)

JB said...
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JB said...

Thank you to everyone for your heartfelt wishes. It has not been an easy road, but the Lord has been very gracious to us, growing us daily.

Tiffany, I do remember the Cabbage Patch craze. But at the time I only had boys, so it wasn't worth standing in line! (Sshhh, don't let them hear me tell you, they did each have one baby doll when they were very little!)

Dani, Like Stacy, I liked Michael Jackson when he was little - the Jackson 5 and the Osmonds!!

Cheryl, Jessica, Melanie, Joy,
Thank you for the wishes and blessings.

Miss M, We, too, are glad you are in our lives. I'll sign this "Auntie Jean"!

Richard, Yes, we all can remember. I just can't figure out why my parents were so old when they celebrated their 25th, and we're not!! :)

Stacy, Thank you. We are looking forward to the next 25!!

Matthew, Sorry, Michael is out!!!

Ben, Thank you so much for your tribute to us. It was sweet to read and remember. Time has moved quickly, but I am grateful for all the Lord has blessed us with - especially our children.

Blessings,
Jean/Mom/Mrs.H

Stacy McDonald said...

Yes! I liked the Osmands too! Puppy Love was my favorite! I had that in my comment yesterday, and then I deleted it. LOL And Tony DeFranco and the DeFranco family! Am I the only one who remembers them?

kymk99 said...

Great post! And Happy Anniversary to your parents!

When your parents got married, I was too young to vote for president and too old for a Cabbage Patch Doll. But I must admit, I did listen to Michael Jackson in high school.

Mrs. Reynolds :o)

Thomas and Lindsey said...

Happy Anniversary Mamamamamamama and Dad!!!

TJH